Tuesday, September 02, 2014

Call for Submissions: Erotic Fiction, Poetry, Art & Photography


Call for Submissions: Erotic Fiction, Poetry, Art & Photography

A Good Woman's Dirty Mind

In part of my effort in changing my blog into a magazine format, I’m including a section of features called The Art of Erotica. It’s my goal to feature exceptional erotic writers and artists to new audience that may not otherwise be exposed to legitimate talent that some people may find offensive or don’t meet their ideas of community standards – even those who are naked under their clothes, have sex, or enjoy visiting museums or the Vatican.

Erotic Fiction and Poetry Submissions:

I am looking for female- or couples-oriented erotic fiction novels, short stories or poetry. Erotica considered for submission should include a chapter of a novel, one short story of a short story anthology, one published short story, or three poems.

Work that is selected will be given a 100-word description of the book, short story or collection of poetry and a 250-word bio about the author. Both will be provided by the author. Any awards received may be included but may be omitted if they exceed the bio word count.

Stories, chapters and excerpts will be published as they are received for submission.

A photo of the cover of the book is mandatory. A photo of the author is optional.

One link will be provided to purchase the book online and one link will be provided to the author’s website.

Art & Photography Submissions:

I am looking for artistic erotic art (paintings, drawings, photos of sculptures, etc.) and photography. Submissions will include five photographs from the artist’s portfolio. At least one horizontal photograph is highly preferred.

Work that is selected will be given a 350-word bio that will also include an explanation of the medium the artist works in, inspirations and muses that are provided by the artist. Any prominent shows, exhibitions an artist has been in or awards received may be included but may be omitted if they exceed the bio word count.

The five photographs from the artist’s portfolio as submitted for consideration will be published. Discreet (bottom right or left) watermarked photographs that don’t obstruct the photos are preferred for copyright protection.

One link to the artist’s website will be provided. If any of the published photos or works or art are available for sale on another site, one additional link will be provided.

Easy enough? Email all submissions and questions to msquote2@hotmail.com.

Daily Sex Discussion #657: Direction?

Daily Sex Discussion #657

Do you actively direct people on how you like to be touched?

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Hey CeeLo: Fuck You and Forget You

Men are taught to think like CeeLo Green. This is what has to change.

Say What Now? CeeLo Green Tries to Define Rape on Twitter, Says It’s Not Rape If You Don’t Remember It

TMI Tuesday: September 2, 2014: Love, Life and Lessons.

TMI Tuesday: September 2, 2014: Love, Life and Lessons.

Hello there. It’s a holiday here in the United States, it is Labor Day. The only work I’m doing is this TMI Tuesday. -H



1. Are you happy with your job? Why or Why not?
There is nothing wrong with my job...I just don't want to be working at it anymore. It changed a couple years ago and just isn't want I want to be doing.

2. What do you want?
Sex writing work that pays. And fun. And warm weather always. 

3. Who first broke your heart?
I don't use names, but I do know who. 

4. What is the biggest mistake you’ve made in a relationship?


5. What did you learn from you last lover/ex-significant other?
Drugs and alcohol and certainly break an otherwise compelling person.

6. What novel has been instrumental in shaping your views at any point in your life? Why?
Two: To Kill a Mockingbird and Kiss of the Fur Queen

7. Tell us about a favorite TV broadcast show you currently enjoy? Give us a synopsis of the show.
Most shows I watch are cable. They are much better than broadcast. Was the British Sherlock considered broadcast? I'll say yes. Synopsis: very odd, talented man solves crimes with ordinary but compassionate partner. 

Bonus: What is your current favorite song to listen to over and over again?



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Monday, September 01, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #656: Favourite Place?

Daily Sex Discussion #656

What is your favourite place to have sex?

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Celebrity Naked Photo Awfulness

Two good articles on this mess

Jennifer Lawrence Nude Photo Leak Isn't A "Scandal." It's A Sex Crime.

The Great Naked Celebrity Photo Leak of 2014 is just the beginning

Between the Sheets: Writing and Selling Erotica with Rachel Kramer Bussel



Between the Sheets: Writing and Selling Erotica with Rachek Kramer Bussel

Writing about sex is so much bigger than one little Grey trilogy. Learn to write about sex with skill and grace, and then how to sell it, in this four-week workshop.

Your Instructor: Editor and author Rachel Kramer Bussel

Where: Online — Available everywhere!

When: October 16, 2014 - November 13, 2014

Enrollment: 16 students

Price: $325

Class Description

Let's talk about sex.
Specifically, writing about it.

First, it ain't easy to write. Sex itself can be awkward enough, but describing it? Without sounding like a goofball? That can be tough.

Second, there's this whole big genre totally devoted to sex called erotica, which has turned into a dirty word among writers—especially those who think Fifty Shades of Grey is all it has to offer.

But you can write sex with a deft hand, with skill and grace, in a way that reveals character and emotion. And you'll learn to do that in Between the Sheets with Rachel Kramer Bussel.

Rachel has been writing erotica for over 15 years, and has edited over 50 anthologies, including Hungry for More, The Big Book of Orgasms, Fast Girls, and Cheeky Spanking Stories, and is Best Bondage Erotica series editor. Her short stories have been published in over 100 anthologies, including the Best American Erotica, Best Women’s Erotica, Best Gay Erotica and Best Lesbian Erotica series. For five years she ran the In The Flesh Erotic Reading Series, and has conducted readings and taught erotic writing workshops across the country.

As part of the class, you'll receive a bibliography and market listing, and you'll be pointed to current markets that are looking for new writing.

What This Class Covers


Week One: Erotica is Everywhere
We will define erotica and its purpose, including examples from literary fiction and erotic novels, including varying types of language and the mechanics of writing about sex, including research (no, you absolutely don’t have to have done the things you’re writing about). We’ll discuss language, voice, pace, and how to find the erotic potential in everyday situations, as well as how to overcome internal hurdles to writing erotica and answer your friends’ and families’ nosy questions.

Assignment: Students will be asked to write a prompt-driven erotic scene with particular attention to fresh imagery and avoidance of cliche.

Week Two: From Humor to Heartache: Setting the Mood
Erotica is not necessarily about shiny happy people having the best orgasms of their lives on every page (though you will find plenty of happy people enjoying their sexuality). Erotica may or may not have a traditional happy ending (pun intended). We’ll examine why humor and heartache work in erotica and how they can be used to your best advantage to add to the tension and draw of a story.

Assignment: Students will respond to story prompts incorporating humor and heartache respectively using the same set of characters.

Week Three: Motivation
Why is erotica about more than just a sex scene? How can you enhance the sex scenes in your stories by adding conflict, backstory and motivation? How does writing about characters fundamentally different from you push you to explore the genre, and what does it teach you about sexuality? We’ll explore different motivations within erotica and how they fuel the story.

Assignment: Students will explore point of view and voice in erotica by telling the same story from multiple viewpoints, and examining which voice speaks the most strongly.

Week Four: The Business of Erotica and Submitting Your Work
What are editors looking for in today’s erotica marketplace, and how can you stand out? Should you use a pseudonym? How can you make you extend your work beyond a single story? How much money can you expect to make from writing erotica?

Assignment: Complete a short story and submit it to a current market.

Goals Of This Class

  • Learn what erotica is (and isn’t)—and about the marketplace for erotica and erotic fiction
  • Write from various points of view, sexualities, and character types
  • Incorporate elements of pop culture, news, and everyday life into your erotica
  • Craft a complete erotic short story and submit it
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Sunday, August 31, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #655: Hats?

Daily Sex Discussion #655

Hats: sexy, not sexy, depends, don't think about it.

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Submitting to Submitting for The Big Book of Submission

Sometimes, inspiration comes in the most backward way.

When I received The Big Book of Submission: 69 Kinky Tales (Cleis Press), another great collection of erotica shorts edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel, I started to wonder about the idea of submission for writers. Okay, wait, that's not entirely true. I wondered about writers and submission in between reading hot stories. But thoughts did creep in from time to time. 

Once I finished the collection, I felt a new desire to write fresh new erotica. It has been a while, but I was inspired. But not in the normal way that good writing usual gets my own creative juices flowing. I was drawn to scribble new smut because I wanted to submit. 

For writers, particularly erotica writers, to submit has two distinct connotations. Of course, when we're talking dirty, submission can be all about the acts of giving yourself over to someone in a sexual, erotic or life-affirming way. Submission can be about control and release. It can be ecstasy, agony and a delicious combination of the two. 

On the other hand, for erotica writers, submission has an entirely different meaning—though I suspect it is, at least a bit, linked to the sexy version. 

The main way writers of wanton words get their works into the world is by finding Calls for Submission. These are notices put out by editors and publishers seeking specific types of writing for an anthology or website. Because a book like The Big Book of Submission has a specific theme, editors and publishers only want to receive work that reflects that theme so the call for submission lays out the rules of what aspiring submitters should send in. 

If you're a prolific writer, you might already have a tale ready to send in when you see a new call. If not, the call can be an excellent guideline to craft a work that might be a bit out of your wheelhouse. Either way, as I took in so many delicious stories in Bussel's work, I thought more and more on the idea that whether erotica writers identify with the description or not, we're all somewhat submissive because we answer calls for submission. 

Okay, I know that sounds like a bit of a "yes, Jon, such an astute observation, shush now," moment, but I think there's a bit more to it. I think of a writer seeing and reading a Call for Submission for the first time as the beginning of a relationship. You two meet, you intrigue each other, you take some time getting to know each other. You learn what each other wants and craves. The writer wants acceptance, the Call wants to be fulfilled—to exacting specifications. The Call wants you to do very specific things like explore a desired act, complete your submission by a certain time, use desired implements (Times New Roman, 12 pt). The Call wants words written a certain way and the writer is (willingly) powerless to do anything else but comply.

Write those words, impress me with those words and do it just the way I want it.

I think there is a definite Dominant/submissive power structure at play here. Now, I can't speak for any other erotica writers, but this process could, in fact, be part of the appeal of writing erotica. For sure, many of us write erotica for fun, to turn ourselves and our partners on (could be some D/s dynamic there too!) and don't think about the potential of publishing. But for others who want their work out in the world in books and online, we must have a little bit of a submissive streak in us, right? 

The Big Book of Submission: 69 Kinky Tales is available and hot. Pick it up! 

Saturday, August 30, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #654: Teacher Fantasy?

Daily Sex Discussion #654

Did you (do you) ever fantasize about your teachers?

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Sex News! I love it! August 31, 2014

I Was a Teenage Prostitute

16 Intimate Things Every Couple Should Do At Least Once

Some Think It's Just Plain Kinky, But The Amount Of Trust This Lifestyle Takes Is Staggering

Fifty Shades of Nay

College dudes worried that movement to take rape seriously is ruining their sex lives

What Men Think About Sex vs. Reality

The 4 Basic Steps to G-Spot Bliss

Are you guilty of slut-shaming sex doll lovers?

A Dad Has 4 Rules For Guys Who Want To Date His Daughter. And Guys, They’re Really Easy To Remember.

6 Little-Known Facts About Nipples

Bursting My Precious Sex-Positive Bubble

Should I Have Anal Sex?

http://vivaxo.com/articles/should-i-have-anal-sex#.U_ylwdYnYak

'Taboo' Photos Reveal The Dual Lives Of Everyday People Who Practice BDSM (NSFW)

Why make-up sex can feel so good

Is a 'Nipple Orgasm' a Real Thing?

Italian scientists claim to have discovered an area larger than the G-spot

5 D.I.Y. Sex Toys She’ll Love

Sunday Sex Tip: The Dos and Don'ts of Making a Sex Tape

Woman Only Orgasms With Legs Together

AWESOME GREAT-GREAT-GRANDMOTHER PUBLISHES DEBUT EROTICA NOVEL AT 86

10 Women Share the "Unsexy" Ways They Orgasm

Japanese porn stars to partake in 24-hour breast-squeezing event for AIDS research

The Two Biggest Barriers to a Satisfying Sex Life

9 Ways to Make Sex Even Better in Less Than a Minute

What Goes Into Porn Banner Ads

Interesting peek behind the curtain of porn banner ads:

THINGS YOU LEARN DESIGNING PORN BANNERS FOR A LIVING

If I were on a better computer, I'd totally make a ridiculous Sex in Words on right now.

Friday, August 29, 2014

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #651: Oral Sex Technique?

Daily Sex Discussion #651

Using three words, describe your oral sex technique.

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Stay In The Closet You Irrelevant Bi!

You know what is "irrelevant"?

Some dumb ass advice columnist that would tell a bi person to stay in the closet because she is married.


Amazing Sex Business Roundtable on Sex City!

I was very lucky to host a very special roundtable discussion on sex entrepreneurs and sex-related business on last night's Sex City. I welcomed three inspirational women who are succeeding with their different, awesome endeavours. Many thanks to Rosanna from In My Bed magazine, Marika from Kink Engineering and Deanna from Hanky Panky for their insight and encouraging words about the prospects of running a sex-related business.

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #650: Vac-bed?

Daily Sex Discussion #650

Would you (have you) ever try a vac-bed?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Should You Catcall Her?

I like that this has been getting traction today.


Nipples! All About Nipples!

Here are a couple informative posts about nipples! What you should know about them and what you might like to do with them.

6 Little-Known Facts About Nipples

Is a 'Nipple Orgasm' a Real Thing?

Cosplay Spectator Fri, whipped cream Sat, Naked Yoga Sun & white on Labour Day



Make it Count

The last week of August explodes with exciting events
at the Oasis

Oasis Does the Ice Bucket Challenge…in the Buff!

Join us at Oasis Aqualounge on Wednesday August 27th during Hot Springs for the Oasis Ice Bucket Challenge. If you watch TV, listen to the radio, own a cell phone or computer then you’ve definitely heard or seen this latest phenomenon that has been spreading the word about ALS (Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis) across the world.

At 7:00 pm our hosts Fionna Flauntit and Miss F will encourage anyone that wants to participate in the “Oasis version” of the Ice Bucket Challenge to do so…in the buff!
Any brave souls that wish to bare it all and have a bucket of ice water dumped over their heads will receive a 50% off voucher for their next visit to Oasis as well as a great prize pack filled with sexy swag!

A suggested donation of $5 per person can be given to the hosts prior to the challenge. For those that wish to donate but don’t want to participate in the Ice Bucket Challenge, an ALS donation box will be set up at the pay station. All donations will go directly to the ALS Association.

Please note that the hosts will be filming the contestants for The Oasis Ice Bucket Challenge, anyone that does not wish to be filmed please advise the hosts prior to the challenge the day of.

Check out this fun link of Oasis staff who have already done the Ice Bucket Challenge!

Plan Your Visit:

Tuesday August 26 -Amateur Porn Night
(Everyone welcome)
Wednesday August 27 -Hot Springs Featuring Fan Expo Teaser, The Right Approach & Ice Bucket Challenge
(Everyone welcome)
Thursday August 28 -Double Your Pleasure
(Couples & women only)
Friday August 29 -Cosplay Themed Spectator Sex
(Couples & women only)
Saturday August 30 -Sweet Saturday Sundae
(Couples & women only)
Sunday August 31 -Hot Kiss
(Everyone welcome)
Monday September 1 -"White Heat" Bonus Hot Springs
(Everyone welcome)
Tuesday September 2 -Down to F*CK
(Everyone welcome)

Weekend Highlights

Spectator Sex -Cosplay Theme!

Friday August 29



Last Friday of every month! Watch volunteer couples perform for your viewing pleasure.

Join us tonight for a special Cosplay Themed Spectator Sex, just in time for FanExpo! Tonight’s features include a Kinbaku Workshop instructed by one of the top riggers from Japan at 9:00 pm in the Oasis dungeon, Japanimation themed sex at 10:00 pm and even more performances throughout the night! Cosplay costumes encouraged, time to unleash your inner super hero!

Are you an exhibitionist? Talk to us about performing in front of an appreciative audience. Hosted by the Ella Vation. Oasis will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am. Couples $80, women $20.

Sweet Saturday Sundae

Saturday August 30



On Saturday August 30th, Oasis Aqualounge will be hosting a sticky sweet event around the theme of ice cream and delicious sundaes.

Lick whip cream off your lover(s), cool down with some creamy dessert and cover sexy body parts in delicious chocolate. It will be the perfect treat to a wonderfully hot summer!

Enjoy a creamy number by Mona Sirens, who will be performing her "Nut Sundae" act live at 11:00 pm.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00am-3:00am, with evening festivities starting at 9:00 pm. Women and couples welcome.

 
Mona Sirens

Naked Yoga:

On Saturday August 30th, a free yoga lesson will be held outside on the pool deck at Oasis Aqualounge. This will be available to women and couples with the regular price of admission to the club.

Hatha Flow will be taught by certifed instructor Monica and is open to everyone-from beginners to an intermediate level. If available, please provide your own yoga mats.
Join us outside from 11:30 am-12:30 pm. Test your flexibility and strength, warm up those muscles and enjoy an invigorating activity to start your day! *Outdoor classes will be weather permitting.

Women $20, couples $80. Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am.

Weekly Favourites & More

Hot Springs Featuring FanExpo Teaser, The Right Approach & Ice Bucket Challenge

Wednesday August 27

  

Attention all gamers, geeks and cosplayers! Tonight at Oasis Aqualounge features our FanExpo teaser! So dress up as your favourite comic book heroes and venture to the club for a night dedicated to all things with capes and super (sex) powers! Burlesque show at 11:00 pm with special guest Scarlett LaFlamme, the delicious Delicia Pastiche from Nerd Girl Burlesque and Oasis's own Fionna Flauntit as "Mystique." Click here to see Fionna Flauntit as Mystique.

Join us for the hottest hump day in the city! Hang out poolside, meet new friends, mix, mingle & explore. Weekly features always include:

-The hottest DJ's spinning your favourite tunes. Tonight on the decks is DJ Ella Vation.
-Massage available in the evenings for only a $1/minute (suggested time: 20 minutes).
-DM (Dungeon Monitor) available 7:00 pm to 1:00 am in the dungeon.

Join us at 7:00 pm or the Oasis Ice Bucket Challenge...in the buff!

The Right Approach at 10pm
The Right Approach to Attracting Women and Bathhouse Etiquette is a monthly workshop that will occur on the fourth Wednesday of every month during Hot Springs at Oasis Aqualounge. Join us in the dungeon at10:00pm for sexy icebreakers and entertaining skits on the right approach to meeting women at Oasis Aqualounge and policies of the club.

Hosted by Miss F and the friendly and alluring staff at Oasis Aqualounge, The Right Approach hopes to provide some guidance in terms of meeting new people, negotiating sexual activity and the chance to interact with others in a friendly, non-judgmental environment. We are excited to provide some tools that could help in the exploration of the lifestyle and instruct newcomers on the best way to conduct themselves in this sexually charged atmosphere.

The workshop will be begin at 10:00pm and is free to attend with admission into the club.

Single Gentlemen and couples $50, always free for single women. Oasis will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am. *Single men must be chaperoned by another female or couple in order to visit the third floor playrooms. Everyone has accessibility to the spa facilities, main floor, dungeon and outdoor pool.

Double Your Pleasure

Thursday August 28



Couples; double your fun this Thursday and bring along a second lady for free. Enjoy our spa facilities or mix and mingle upstairs in our various play rooms. The perfect way to kick start the long weekend.

Club open 11:00 am-3:00 am. Couples $80, second lady free. Solo ladies attending club $20.

Staycation Sunday & Hot Kiss

August 31

 

Daytime: The perfect destination getaway right in the heart of the city! Indulge in paradise without having to pack a suitcase. Oasis offers a beautiful outdoor pool in a private court yard where you can swim, sip a cocktail and soak up some rays. The indoor hot tub, sauna and upper floor themed play rooms are available for even more indulgence. Couples and women only please. Club open 11:00 am-7:00 pm. Couples $50, ladies $20.

Evening: Join us for ‘Hot Kiss’ -an inclusive event for all genders, orientations and identities! One gender-free price of $30 per person. Singles, couples, partners, triads, poly groups and everyone in between is welcome to visit Oasis Aqualounge on Sunday August 31st. We are excited to announce that Woodbutcher will be playing a live set at this event! Get rowdy with this punk rock drag band and move your body to some killer ‘queerabilly’ tunes!

Enjoy a ‘body safe’ sex toy workshop, ft. ‘Anna-Lovedreamer’s local “Pyrex-pert’!” Anna can also be found at the Lovedreamer booth at this year’s Everything To Do With Sex Show and Sexapalooza! Also, special birthday greetings to Blair Ryder! We are excited to show one of Canada’s top 5 T-Girl models and special friend of Oasis Aqualounge some love. Bring cake, kisses and follow this beauty on Twitter! @BlairRyderx.

Hosted by Miss F Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-7:00 pm for Staycation Sunday.

"White Heat" Bonus Hot Springs

Monday September 1



Celebrate Labour Day with us for the Bonus Hot Springs “White Heat” event. You know the saying “you can’t wear white after Labour Day,”so now’s your last chance to flaunt your sexiest white outfit, gentlemen that means you too! Today Oasis will dazzle with all white decor. Single men, ladies and couples are welcome to to lounge, play and socialize from 11:00 am-3:00 am. Enjoy a relaxing holiday in the heart of downtown Toronto with friends and/or a loved one. Send summer off with a bang!

Student pricing special: men with student ID $20, couples with student ID $25 (male must have student ID.)
www.oasisaqualounge.com
416-599-7665

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TMI Tuesday: August 26, 2014: The Sexy Things We Do And Say

TMI Tuesday: August 26, 2014

I had fun producing this week’s TMI Tuesday questions. I found inspiration from reading elsewhere, which sparked my imagination into creating my own slightly twisted questions. Have fun! -H



1. Close your eyes and think about having sex with your lover. Now, what was the first image that came to your mind? Was it foreplay? What kind of sex? What position? Where?
Foreplay is what I am all about these days. I go through little bouts of sex act obsession. Cunnilingus rules these days!

2. What is that most memorable thing that you or your partner said immediately after sex?
Part of me wants to reply with that "WUAH WUAH WUAH" sound from Charlie Brown...

3. Whether reward or punishment, a part of your body must be shown on a huge billboard in the heart of your city/town. Which body part will you select to be 14 feet tall by 48 feet wide (4.27 meters x 14.63 meters)?
My big, beautiful brain.

4. You are about to lose your power of speech, what’s the one thing you would want to tell someone before that happens?
"Press record now... I love you H & M & R"

5. You are stricken with a disorder that causes you to blurt out a single phrase every time you orgasm? What is that phrase?
Pretty sure that has already happened with "ohhhhhh....yeahhhhhh"

Bonus: If you had to make out with a friend (same sex or opposite sex) to save the world from mass destruction, whom would you pick?
Can I just start a lineup and do it with a bunch? I have a lot of sexy friends!

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Monday, August 25, 2014

Call for Submissions: Fireborn Publishing

Call for Submissions

Fireborn Publishing
www.firebornpublishing.com

What do we take?
Mostly romance (all levels from traditional to erotic), but also erotica and romantic stories, to a lesser extent.
Mostly MM and MF, but also FF and ménage.
From short stories of 5000 words through plus-sized novels. Books of more than 45K will also be slated for print.
All subgenres.
We are willing to consider re-release titles, but (for obvious reasons) we would like to get new releases on the schedule.
The usual no-gos apply.

What do we offer?
40% net for authors for the first three books with us. After that, we plan to offer 50% on further books. All books over 20K get an individual cover.

Submission details at:
www.firebornpublishing.com/Submissions.html

Daily Sex Discussion #649: Webcam Sex?

Daily Sex Discussion #649

Have you ever had sex, with another person, on a webcam for someone else to watch?



Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

More Sex Before Marriage = Less Happy Marriage?

I think Dr. Justin Lehmiller and Dr. Jim McNulty hit it here in critiquing this study on increased premarital sex being a a factor in unhappy marriages. They note it wasn't peer-reviewed and that even the researchers note the analysis was "arbitrary." I'll add that it was brought forward by a group called The National Marriage Project whose mission is "is to provide research and analysis on the health of marriage in America, to analyze the social and cultural forces shaping contemporary marriage, and to identify strategies to increase marital quality and stability."

Overly Sexualized Spider-Woman

I love that people are really taking Marvel to task over these ridiculous drawings of Spider-Woman.

Sunday, August 24, 2014

Saturday, August 23, 2014

Sex News! I love it! August 24, 2014

The Painful Paradox of Coercive Sexuality

50 Shades Of Kink: How To Introduce BDSM To The Bedroom With Duct Tape And A Spatula

Who Actually Pays for Porn Anymore? An Investigation

My Daughter Masturbates – Is That Normal?

What Women Think About Sex vs. the Reality

MY FIRST TIME AT A SEX CLUB AND I BROUGHT MY GIRLFRIEND\\

Every Sex Worker Is Somebody’s Daughter

What do you do when you discover that your partner is looking at internet porn?

The No. 1 Reason Women Cheat

Photographer Captures Real Women From Around The World Having Orgasms (NSFW)

How to Spot a Flirt

Fucking Trees

Would You Have Sex With a Robot? The Age of the Sexbot Is Fast Approaching

We Are All Sexters Now: America’s Favorite Amateur Porn

Sexting Lies: The New Orgasm Faking?

6 Most Savvy Sexologists of 2014

Sex-ed in the age of “Fifty Shades”: Author of controversial book about sex speaks out

5 Reasons Men Over 50 Love Blow Jobs

Love at any size

The best sex tips you’ll ever hear — from a man with no penis

Meet the First Woman Suing Facebook for Revenge Porn

What are the main reasons men pay for sex?

Here’s What a 100-Year-Old Sex Therapist Thinks is Wrong With Sex Today

Horny Old Ladies Describe Sex With Younger Man

Daily Sex Discussion #647: Sex Robot?

Daily Sex Discussion #647

If they ever become widely available, would you have sex with a sex robot?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Sex Box Coming to America

I'm not a fan of reality shows, but the premise behind Sex Box, a British import being adapted for the American TV market, seems compelling. I remember hearing about the original series, but haven't seen any episodes yet. Unfortunately, since we're talking about an adaptation of Brit to US...it is bound to be awful. Here's hoping not and that it can be fun and informative.

Porn Star Earning Breast Implants

Identify a need or desire. Set a goal. Create a plan to reach that goal. Enact plan. Reap reward.

Porn star Zoe Zebra wants breast implants so she's going to earn them through a co-operative project with her employer.

Workshop: Sex after 60: We’re Still in the Game

Sex after 60: We’re Still in the Game



Date: Tuesday September 16, 2014
Time : 7:00 pm to 7:00 pm

Good for Her
175 Harbord St., Toronto

65 year old sex educator, Lyba Spring invites you to explore your sexuality.

We will talk about how you first learned about it, how others see us as sexual beings; and how to live a sexy life, enjoying what we always have, adjusting to changes, and adding to our sexual repertoire.

Price : $33.00

Workshop: Easier Than You Think: Talking to your kids about bodies, relationships and sexuality

Easier Than You Think: Talking to your kids about bodies, relationships and sexuality



Date: Thursday September 18, 2014
Time : 7:00 pm to 9:30 pm

Good for Her
175 Harbord St., Toronto

Price : $33.00

Children have a lot of questions: “Where do babies come from?” “What makes boys and girls different?”, “Why do people kiss?”. Answering them and sharing your values may seem scary but it all takes is a little know-how and practice.

Join sex educator and mom, Nadine Thornhill for a fun, fact-filled workshop that gives you the tools you need to make it easy to talk with your 3-8 year-olds. You will learn what kids of that age need to know, when and how to have the conversation and what to do when their questions catch you completely off guard!

By the end of this workshop you’ll be able to have “the talk”...without anyone blushing!

With Nadine Thornhill

This workshop is open to people of all genders, sexual orientations, family and relationship structures.

Friday, August 22, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #646: Really Wanna Try?

Daily Sex Discussion #646

What sex activity that you haven't tried would you most like to try?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

BDSM Is Not (the only) Kink

I've been tossing this fascinating article on kink as a sexual orientation around in my noodle for a few days now. Frankly, I see valid points from both the kink and queer communities.

But that isn't what I've been thinking about. Admittedly, I've gotten sidetracked here, but what I am having trouble with is the author's use of the term 'kink' to mean 'BDSM' and vice versa. This is something, usually quite subtle, that I've noticed over the years. And I don't think it is accurate—fundamentally or practically.

The general definition of kink is simply one's sexual taste or preference. So, sure, BDSM is definitely a kink. But it is only a kink, not kink. Equating the two terms not only skews the meaning of kink, but that confusion can give kinksters and non-kinksters a differing perspective on what kink/fetish/BDSM are.

These days, if you say kink or fetish, the image that automatically springs to mind is leather/latex/rubber/whips/spanking/paddles/crosses/black. In other words, states or dress and activities that are closely (though not exclusively) linked to BDSM. Is this because that is what pop culture and newbies to scenes ascribe to the kink community? Partially. But it is also a product of the kink community itself.

Of the kink subcultures, the BDSM community is, by far, the most vocal, public and noticeable of all. Many cities feature "fetish" nights that can usually be described with that list of words from above. And I fucking love the BDSM community for this. They are out there challenging the sexual norm in a public way.

But BDSM is not the whole of the kink/fetish community. And the leather/latex/rubber/whips/spanking/paddles/crosses/black crowd is not even the whole of the BDSM community. But I have to say, if you want to explore kink, and don't fit in with this specific image, it can be pretty challenging.

Admittedly, I haven't been to many fetish/kink/BDSM events lately. But when I was going more regularly, I was always irked by the rules that exclude people from coming into the event wearing blue jeans, t-shirts and the like. I understand, on a level, the reasoning behind this rule—not letting looky-lou's who might be insensitive in. I get that and it is important.

However, it is exclusionary to those kinksters who want to explore their sex/orientation—but don't own black leather/rubber/latex, etc. Hell, the only reason I own most of my leather was through a little sexual barter. That shit is expensive and hell, some people just aren't into it.

So, there are people who are kinky, and even some people who are into BDSM who don't fit the mold. Therefore, BDSM is a kink, but not kink.

Let me back this all up by saying that I doubt this piece was written with the intention of conflating kink and BDSM. I doubt that is the case at all. However, it happens. A LOT. And I don't think a reasonable case for establishing kink OR BDSM as an orientation can be made until a better delineation is made.

Lesbians and Orgasms

Apparently, lesbians have the most orgasms among women. Gay and straight dudes come in about the same. Nice to see that bi folk were considered.

Men in Porn Production?

Although my experience was brief and mostly limited to the amateur situations I performed in, I can readily concur with Chauntelle Tibbals experience observing a dude perform on a porn set. I definitely think more could be written and discussed when it comes to equality in porn production.

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #645: Right Now Sex Mood?

Daily Sex Discussion #645

What one work would you use to describe your sexual mood RIGHT NOW?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Sheri Winston's Succulent Sexcraft—Super Sexy Sale Sept 14-16!


Would you love to be having the most fabulous sex possible? Do you want to be the lover of your partner’s wildest dreams?

Then my colleague Sheri Winston’s new book, Succulent Sexcraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice is for YOU!

Do you love getting free stuff? Gifts that can help you have an (even more) amazing sex life?

Buy her new book in the time-limited 3-day window of September 14-16 and more than $700 worth of extra goodies are yours completely FREE!

Sheri’s new book Succulent Sexcraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice is packed with information about how to improve your bedroom skills—you can even become a sexual virtuoso! This treat of a book is well-written, packed with play and practice exercises—it even has lots of erotic art images (both vintage and contemporary). It’s a brilliant, integral, wholistic, hot and juicy educational romp!

If you don’t already know about Sheri, her previous book is one of my all-time favorites. I recommend Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure. It won a national prize and has gotten almost 80 rave reviews on Amazon.

If you buy Succulent SexCraft on September 14, 15 or 16, you’ll qualify for over 20 free gifts from some of the world’s greatest sex and relationship teachers. Gifts like free e-books, free online classes, free teleseminars ... free consults, even! Details here.

That’s right—buy Sheri Winston’s Succulent Sexcraft book in the three-day launch window and get hundreds of dollars of free goodies that will collectively kick your sex life into the next gear. How cool is that?

Just click here to find out more and get a reminder of the three-day buy window so you can get the book and all the goodies!

SUBSPACE HALLOWEEN FETISH BALL 2014

SUBSPACE HALLOWEEN FETISH BALL 2014

Friday, October 31
at 10:00pm - 3:00am

The Opera House
735 Queen Street East, Toronto

HALLOWEEN!!!!!!!!!!! October 31st! Yes on actual Halloween night!! As if that's not cool enough check this out....

From Miranda Tempest, JD Spark and Poisonne of Illumianir Entertainment comes act sure to appeal to your most twisted sensibilities..A world premiere of a new circus act that has to be seen to be believed. Daring aerial work combined with explosive fire effects and suspension bondage combine to create an act that will make Halloween 2014 the most memorable Subspace Halloween Ball yet!

Joshua Mayhem takes lead on the Day Of The Dead face painting/body painting arena. If you would like to do your face Day of the Dead style contact Joshua or approach at the event for most anything!!

Creepy Clowns; we love them we hate them, Excellent! We will have a clown-heavy photo-booth to scare your pants off!

The Nearly Nude costume contest will happen around 12:45 on the main stage. Don't Miss It!

Rope Bondage arena demos all evening!

DJ Saucy Miso & DJ Jason Warmuffin

OPERA HOUSE
735 Queen St. E., Toronto, Ontario M4M 1H1
Doors 10:00
19+
Fetish/Costume
$20 before midnight $25 after midnight.
Dungeon Rules posted in Dungeon or ask to speak with the ChiefDM

FACEBOOK GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/subspaceFetishNight
FET LIFE GROUP: https://fetlife.com/groups/2615

Want to be a Vendor?
For Information please contact: subspace@live.ca

Contact: subspace@live.ca

SUBSPACE PRODUCTIONS
Craig Galbraith
www.SubspaceLive.ca

The Best Sex-related Ted Talks

Great to have all these collected on one page!

Reconsidering Gay Men Draw Vaginas

I included the Gay Men Draw Vaginas link in a recent edition of Sex News! I love it! but I will admit I was uncomfortable with it. Thing is, I often include news items I am uncomfortable with because the post is supposed to promote conversation.

So I am quite happy to read Eva Gantz's tremendous reconsideration of Gay Men Draw Vaginas. She touches on much of what made me queasy, including proper terminology, vagina as monster and trans exclusion. A must read!

Older People Talking About Sex

It is very important to start discussion about sex for older folks. Some have never had the opportunity to speak openly about sex. Now there is a significant opportunity to bring that conversation forward, particularly issues regarding sexual health.

Porn and Fantasy—Good, Bad or Poetry?

An interesting exploration and discussion of fantasy. Rather porn-negative...but maybe she just hasn't experienced good porn?

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #644: Text Interruptus?

Daily Sex Discussion #644

Have you ever interrupted sex to reply to a text?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Talking About Our Cocks

“I’m happy with my penis. Absolutely no complaints. We’ve had many fun times together and with others.”
That is the type of sentiment I hope all people have about their penises. Check out more thoughts folks have about their dicks (with a fair bit of CanCon!) in this very good piece by Monica Heisey in Vice.

Youth Want Sex Ed

It is fantastic that youth are reaching out and saying that they want good sex ed, but I can't help but think that some want porn too.

Call for submissions: Arthurian erotica

Call for submissions: Arthurian erotica
Edited by Jennifer Levine
Publisher: Circlet Press

Deadline: November 1, 2014

Everyone knows the story of King Arthur and his Knights of the Round Table. Tales of the world of Camelot, that fabled medieval castle, have been adapted into animated movies for children, dark television dramas for adults, Broadway musicals, fantasy novels, comics, historical fiction books, and epic musical scores. Children play at being Arthur’s knights, teenagers brood over the doomed romance of Guinevere and Lancelot, and historians debate which of the stories, if any, are fact, and which are simply legend or myth.

King Arthur. Guinevere. Uther Pendragon. Morgana le Fay. Merlin the Wizard. The Knights of the Round Table. Sir Lancelot. Sir Gawain. Mordred. Maybe you know all of these names and more; maybe you’ve only heard of a few. Maybe you’ve heard of sordid love affairs between some of these characters, or magic enchantments gone wrong, or murders and betrayals among even the closest of friends.

So many stories have already been written about the world of Camelot, and so many remain to be told. For this anthology, we are looking for both reimagined old stories and altogether newly invented ones; dalliances we are expecting and affairs we wouldn’t have imagined; familiar characters, new characters, and some we thought we knew but discover anew in your telling.

Your story must take place in the Arthurian universe, with at least one or two of the main characters we are familiar with, but beyond that, go wild. Maybe your characters are gender-swapped; maybe your Camelot is a futuristic world with knights wielding sugarcane; maybe your characters are powerful magicians, or maybe magic doesn’t exist in your world at all.

Remember that this is an anthology of erotica, so your story must have an element of sex in it (and not just any sex, but steamy sex, sexy sex, the kind of sex that leaves us hot and bothered after reading it). But this is also a collection of excellent fiction: your story needs a plot, your characters need to be fleshed out and fully imagined, your story needs to be about something.

For submission details, read on.

Length: Our preferred length is approximately 3,500 to 7,500 words, but we will consider the range from 2,000 to 10,000 words.

How to submit: Send .rtf, .doc, or .docx via email to Jennifer Levine, editor, at jlevineeditor@gmail.com.

About the editor: Jennifer Levine is the Managing Editor of Circlet Press, where she mostly wrangles other editors into submission (and some authors, too). Other Circlet anthologies she has edited include Like a God’s Kiss, Apocalypse Sex, Masked Pleasures, and What Happens at the Tavern Stays at the Tavern.

Only email submissions are accepted. Submissions sent to other addresses/other editors at Circlet Press will not be considered. Standard manuscript formatting rules apply even though sending as an attachment (MS Word .doc, .docx, or .rtf preferred). Please note that this means your name, address, and email contact must appear on the manuscript itself and not simply in your email message. (If you’re not sure what a standard short story submission format should look like, Google is your friend.)

No simultaneous submissions (that is, don’t also send your story elsewhere at the same time, and don’t send it to multiple Circlet editors, either), and no multiple submissions to the same book. One story per author per anthology.

All stories must include explicit sexuality and erotic focus. Romantic content is welcome, but in a short story remember to keep the details on the action and its effects on the main character’s internal point of view. We favor a strong, singular narrative voice (no ‘head hopping’ or swapping between different character’s points of view within a scene). For more details on our editorial preferences, see the general submission guidelines on circlet.com. We highly recommend reading the guidelines, especially the “do not send” list, to increase your chances of sending us something we’ll love. Try to avoid cliches. Fresh and direct language is preferred to overly euphemistic. Sex-positive, please, no rape/nonconsensuality/necrophilia or other purposefully gross topics. We do not publish horror.

Originals only, no reprints. We purchase first rights for inclusion in the ebook anthology for $25, with the additional rights to a print edition later, which would also be paid $25 if a print edition happens. Authors retain the rights to the individual stories; Circlet exercises rights to the anthology as a whole.

That Man/Snake Sex Video...

Okay, I normally don't post too many bizarre sex stories, but this week seems to be the exception. Because there are too many bizarre sex stories! First there was The Penis Collector, then Sex with Corpses Conviction. And now?

A Man Had Sex With a Snake and the Internet Is Losing It

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #643: Sex Poem?

Daily Sex Discussion #643

Have you ever written or received a sex poem?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

First Taste, First timer, Scavenger hunt, Rock n' Roll and summer SUNday



Keeping You Hot

Events this week at the Oasis

Weekend Highlights


My First Time at a Sex Club

Check out this awesome article on Oasis Aqualounge. Special thanks to Plaid Zebra for publishing this great read!
http://www.theplaidzebra.com/first-time-at-a-sex-club/

Sexy Scavenger Hunt

Friday August 22



Join us for a sexy scavenger hunt-Oasis Aqualounge style- on Friday August 22nd. Do you think you know the club inside and out? Have you tried every sexual position on your bucket list? Bring your lover, spouse and/or partner(s) and play this fun game full of riddles, activities and exploration.

This will be a great way to familiarize yourself with the venue if you are new to Oasis and/or explore some hidden fantasies not yet discovered.

Hosted by Miss F, the scavenger hunt will begin at10:00pm and is open to women and couples. There will be a prize for the winning woman/couple who are the first to complete all items on the list. Test your knowledge, stamina and libido. It will be the hottest ‘quiz’ you will ever take!

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00am-3:00am. Women $20, couples $80.

Fionna's Rock 'n Roll Bday Bash

Saturday August 23



Come out tonight and celebrate Oasis resident burlesque performer Fionna Flauntit’s birthday! Party starts 9:00 pm. Embrace your inner rock star...rock out with your cock out! Rock 'n Roll trivia game followed by a naked air guitar contest, super sexy prizes to be won. Dancing, drink specials, themed burlesque performances at 11:00 pmand much more! Don't forget to give the birthday girl her well deserved bday spankings. Meow! Club open 11:00 am-3:00 am.

Weekly Favourites & More


Hot Springs Celebrates the CNE!

Wednesday August 20



Celebrate the CNE during ‘Hot Springs,’ at Oasis Aqualounge! The Oasis promo models will be out to play and will engage in some sexy carnival games, inspired by the annual summer tradition-The Canadian National Exhibition.

The Kissing Booth will be open and will be taking donations for PWA-Toronto People with AIDS Foundation (www.pwatoronto.org). Get a sweet smooch from a lovely lady of Oasis and give to a great organization!

Single men/couples who bring their CNE ticket stub will receive $30 admission. Single women are free, as always.

Weekly features always include:

-DJ Ella Vation spins the sexiest tunes- 10pm to late!

-Massage available in the evenings. ($1/minute, suggested time: 20 minutes)

-DM(Dungeon Monitor) available 7pm to 1am in the dungeon.

*Single men must be chaperoned by another female or couple in order to visit the third floor playrooms. Everyone has accessibility to the spa facilities, main floor, dungeon and outdoor pool.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00am-3:00am. Single men/couples $50, single women are always free.

First Taste

Thursday August 21



Curious about what Oasis Aqualounge has to offer? Interested in enhancing the intimacy in your relationship?

Join an Oasis Aqualounge representative every 1st and 3rdThursday for First Taste at 8:00pm. Enjoy a drink, receive a tour of the venue and participate in a Q&A period from experienced members.

M/F Couples- $20 (tour & Q&A), $60 additional to stay afterwards or receive a $20 voucher to return another night. Single women may receive a free tour, $20 to stay. Couples and women only.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am.

Staycation Sundays

August 24



The perfect destination getaway right in the heart of the city! Indulge in paradise without having to pack a suitcase. Oasis offers a beautiful outdoor pool in a private court yard where you can swim, sip a cocktail and soak up some rays. The indoor hot tub, sauna and upper floor themed play rooms are available for even more indulgence.

Couples and women only please. Club open 11am-7pm. Couples $50, ladies $20.

Please note that Oasis Aqualounge will be closed for aprivate event tonight from 8:00 pm-3:00 am.

Sass After Class

Featuring Back to School Burlesque!
Monday August 25



Sass After Class is an event for students to come and enjoy Oasis Aqualounge at a more wallet friendly rate. Come out and relax by the pool, spin on the poles, or swing in the dungeon.

Women $5, men 35 and under with student ID $20, men 35 and under without ID $50.

Tonight's Feature:

Sass After Class welcomes Back To School Burlesque-a evening of school-themed entertainment. You definitely won’t want to be late to this class!

Check out performances by: Scarlett Black, Kage Wolfe and Willy Wonder.

Sass After Class will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am.

Upcoming Highlights -Save the Date!

Wednesday August 27 -Hot Springs Features FanExpo Teaser Wednesday

www.oasisaqualounge.com
416-599-7665

Social media links:
Facebook
Twitter

Sex as Artistic Medium?

I'm curious about this project, "Save the Date" by artist Mischa Badasyan. His goal is to have sex with a different man every day for the next year. He's exploring loneliness and emptiness, particularly for gay men in today's so-called hook-up culture. 

Curious...what do you think?

Sex with Corpses Conviction

It is certainly turning into an interesting week in terms of people exploring sexuality with the dead.

Ohio Morgue Attendant Admits to Fucking 100 Corpses

My Latest Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly!

This is one varied post, folks! Hometown Porn Hero, Sperm Races and Misconceptions About Sex and more!

Choosing the Right Dildo for You

Fantastic guide from A Woman's Touch (shared by Dr. Jess O'Reilly) to finding the best dildo(s) for your collection. I love how it is inclusive of men and women and considers the different uses and rolls dildos can have in sex and health. Great stuff!

Lubed Up for Sex—Inside and Out!

I'll admit it too me far too long to realize dehydration was playing a role in my sex life. And of course, sometimes I still do forget. But I sure can tell the difference!

TMI Tuesday: Aug. 19, 2014: Doing Business

TMI Tuesday: Aug. 19, 2014

This week’s TMI Tuesday is the idea of Virtual Sin and the questions are a collaboration between him and myself. Enjoy!
Doing Business



For each of the categories listed below, imagine that a new business or event of that type opened in your area. Tell us whether you would check it out or attend; and, whether you would go alone, with friends of your gender, or with a significant other/lover. Expound on your answer as much as you’d like.

1. Sports Bar: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), though sports bars aren't really my thing.

2. Brew pub or beer hall: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), though a good pub is hard to find

3. Wine Festival: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), the area I am from hosts a major event every year...though I think I only went once.

4. Tanning Salon: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
never...I do not understand tanning

5. Sex/kink event (e.g. Dark Odyssey, Sexapalooza, Leather conferences, fetish ball, kinky salon): never, alone, with friends, with your SO?

6. Strip club: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), haven't been to one in a number of years now, but fun times are often had!

7. Sex toy store: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), my friends and my SO are fun to go to sex stores with.

8. Upscale Spa: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
never...no interest

9. Adult Sex education conference (e.g. Eroticon, CatalystCon): never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), I'm glad I have people to share my hobbies with

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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link totmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #641: Sex Dreams?

Daily Sex Discussion #641

Do your dreams include sex?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

California Condom Bill Dies

A clear message the porn industry does and can regulate itself.

Elust #61

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Welcome to Elust #61 -

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #62? Start with the rules, come back September1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Bloggers, please
I Touch Myself
Stunt Porn / People Porn

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Is sex unsexy? A 'His & Hers' post
Van Gogh, an erotic author and a selfie...
 

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* His Desires All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!  

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Anorgasmia in women
One Week On
chatterbox
Safe Craigslist Hookups
Online Dating: How to Talk to People
Stealth Sex Toys-Stash Management
Last Longer In Bed For Men Naturally

Erotic Non-Fiction

Spicing Up Sex Life
Gasp, Shake, Thank You
Again and Again
Fapping to My Photos and Stories
Did you miss me?
Desire….What happens when you can’t succumb?
Off Balance
On the Sofa
The Solace of My Body
Self Given
Orgasms & Ice Cream
Skid Marks

Sex News,Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Nasty
Jacky au royaume des filles
What makes a sex writer?
Dubrovnik whore as metaphor 4 Balkan politics
Am I Pretty or Ugly?

Erotic Fiction

Lonely observations
Fucking and Being Fucked The Churning Black, Part 4
A Return to Purpose
Bang on Target!
Polished
Please
My Night With Lilith

Writing About Writing

Words That Shouldn't Be In Erotica
Transhumanist Erotica: Jacked In

Blogging

Just One Look

Thoughts and Advice on Kink and Fetish

The Hotness Of Cockteasing A Guy In Chastity
My eyes are over here
Submissive Men 101 Facts
Emotional Masochism
The time I made him make me safeword

Poetry

Frame Game - A Lusty Limerick

Events

Diana J Torres- Vagaculation Workshop
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Saturday, August 16, 2014

Sex News! I love it! August 16, 2014

Are You Sexually Compatible?

More bang for your buck

Tell Me Something Good

Sasha Grey Lovelaced Into Porn?

32 Things You Can Learn From Porn

Adults Share The Wrongest Things They Used To Believe About Sex

Stripper Responds to the Oregonian: "I am no Mary Magdalene"

I GOT MY PUSSY STONED WITH WEED LUBE

Queen of Pain: How My Marriage Survived My Illness

50 Shades of Non-Consent: Editing BDSM Erotica as a Queer Top

Meet the unassuming mothers, librarians and church-goers behind some of the world's raunchiest reads: The very ordinary lives of erotic fiction writers

Sperm Cooperation: Sometimes Sperm Swim Together To Enhance Performance

Star Trek Writer's Defense of Diversity in Sci-Fi Is Damn Near Perfect

FILM BUFFS: Ms. Naughty’s Must-See Films (“all of them prove that I’m not a film buff, just a nerd.”)

9 Sex Moves to Rock a Woman's World

PHOTOS: Photographer Captures The Softer Side Of BDSM

The Problem With Sexual Arousal Studies

BUCK ANGEL WINS FTM CASE AGAINST FORMER FRENCH QUARTER BODY PIERCING SHOP OWNER

Japan's creepy sex doll industry 'reaches next level' in creation of perfect artificial £1,000 ‘Dutch Wife’ which comes with 'realistic feeling skin'

Christy Mack’s Brutal Reality Show

Three Steps to Loving Your Body

The intimate confessions of a female porn fan

I Waited Until My Wedding Night To Lose My Virginity And I Wish I Hadn’t

Are your naked selfies safe? Researchers recover 100s of nude photos from second-hand smartphones

How sex got its soundtrack: The X-rated history of “boom-chicka-wah-wah”

Here's What Happened When I Agreed to Try Group Masturbation

7 Proven Reasons Why It’s Perfectly Okay To Have Sex On The First Date