Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #650: Vac-bed?

Daily Sex Discussion #650<br />
Would you (have you) ever try a vac-bed?<br />
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Should You Catcall Her?

I like that this has been getting traction today.

Nipples! All About Nipples!

Here are a couple informative posts about nipples! What you should know about them and what you might like to do with them.

6 Little-Known Facts About Nipples

Is a 'Nipple Orgasm' a Real Thing?

Cosplay Spectator Fri, whipped cream Sat, Naked Yoga Sun & white on Labour Day

Make it Count

The last week of August explodes with exciting events
at the Oasis

Oasis Does the Ice Bucket Challenge…in the Buff!

Join us at Oasis Aqualounge on Wednesday August 27th during Hot Springs for the Oasis Ice Bucket Challenge. If you watch TV, listen to the radio, own a cell phone or computer then you’ve definitely heard or seen this latest phenomenon that has been spreading the word about ALS (Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis) across the world.

At 7:00 pm our hosts Fionna Flauntit and Miss F will encourage anyone that wants to participate in the “Oasis version” of the Ice Bucket Challenge to do so…in the buff!
Any brave souls that wish to bare it all and have a bucket of ice water dumped over their heads will receive a 50% off voucher for their next visit to Oasis as well as a great prize pack filled with sexy swag!

A suggested donation of $5 per person can be given to the hosts prior to the challenge. For those that wish to donate but don’t want to participate in the Ice Bucket Challenge, an ALS donation box will be set up at the pay station. All donations will go directly to the ALS Association.

Please note that the hosts will be filming the contestants for The Oasis Ice Bucket Challenge, anyone that does not wish to be filmed please advise the hosts prior to the challenge the day of.

Check out this fun link of Oasis staff who have already done the Ice Bucket Challenge!

Plan Your Visit:

Tuesday August 26 -Amateur Porn Night
(Everyone welcome)
Wednesday August 27 -Hot Springs Featuring Fan Expo Teaser, The Right Approach & Ice Bucket Challenge
(Everyone welcome)
Thursday August 28 -Double Your Pleasure
(Couples & women only)
Friday August 29 -Cosplay Themed Spectator Sex
(Couples & women only)
Saturday August 30 -Sweet Saturday Sundae
(Couples & women only)
Sunday August 31 -Hot Kiss
(Everyone welcome)
Monday September 1 -"White Heat" Bonus Hot Springs
(Everyone welcome)
Tuesday September 2 -Down to F*CK
(Everyone welcome)

Weekend Highlights

Spectator Sex -Cosplay Theme!

Friday August 29

Last Friday of every month! Watch volunteer couples perform for your viewing pleasure.

Join us tonight for a special Cosplay Themed Spectator Sex, just in time for FanExpo! Tonight’s features include a Kinbaku Workshop instructed by one of the top riggers from Japan at 9:00 pm in the Oasis dungeon, Japanimation themed sex at 10:00 pm and even more performances throughout the night! Cosplay costumes encouraged, time to unleash your inner super hero!

Are you an exhibitionist? Talk to us about performing in front of an appreciative audience. Hosted by the Ella Vation. Oasis will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am. Couples $80, women $20.

Sweet Saturday Sundae

Saturday August 30

On Saturday August 30th, Oasis Aqualounge will be hosting a sticky sweet event around the theme of ice cream and delicious sundaes.

Lick whip cream off your lover(s), cool down with some creamy dessert and cover sexy body parts in delicious chocolate. It will be the perfect treat to a wonderfully hot summer!

Enjoy a creamy number by Mona Sirens, who will be performing her "Nut Sundae" act live at 11:00 pm.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00am-3:00am, with evening festivities starting at 9:00 pm. Women and couples welcome.

Mona Sirens

Naked Yoga:

On Saturday August 30th, a free yoga lesson will be held outside on the pool deck at Oasis Aqualounge. This will be available to women and couples with the regular price of admission to the club.

Hatha Flow will be taught by certifed instructor Monica and is open to everyone-from beginners to an intermediate level. If available, please provide your own yoga mats.
Join us outside from 11:30 am-12:30 pm. Test your flexibility and strength, warm up those muscles and enjoy an invigorating activity to start your day! *Outdoor classes will be weather permitting.

Women $20, couples $80. Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am.

Weekly Favourites & More

Hot Springs Featuring FanExpo Teaser, The Right Approach & Ice Bucket Challenge

Wednesday August 27


Attention all gamers, geeks and cosplayers! Tonight at Oasis Aqualounge features our FanExpo teaser! So dress up as your favourite comic book heroes and venture to the club for a night dedicated to all things with capes and super (sex) powers! Burlesque show at 11:00 pm with special guest Scarlett LaFlamme, the delicious Delicia Pastiche from Nerd Girl Burlesque and Oasis's own Fionna Flauntit as "Mystique." Click here to see Fionna Flauntit as Mystique.

Join us for the hottest hump day in the city! Hang out poolside, meet new friends, mix, mingle & explore. Weekly features always include:

-The hottest DJ's spinning your favourite tunes. Tonight on the decks is DJ Ella Vation.
-Massage available in the evenings for only a $1/minute (suggested time: 20 minutes).
-DM (Dungeon Monitor) available 7:00 pm to 1:00 am in the dungeon.

Join us at 7:00 pm or the Oasis Ice Bucket Challenge...in the buff!

The Right Approach at 10pm
The Right Approach to Attracting Women and Bathhouse Etiquette is a monthly workshop that will occur on the fourth Wednesday of every month during Hot Springs at Oasis Aqualounge. Join us in the dungeon at10:00pm for sexy icebreakers and entertaining skits on the right approach to meeting women at Oasis Aqualounge and policies of the club.

Hosted by Miss F and the friendly and alluring staff at Oasis Aqualounge, The Right Approach hopes to provide some guidance in terms of meeting new people, negotiating sexual activity and the chance to interact with others in a friendly, non-judgmental environment. We are excited to provide some tools that could help in the exploration of the lifestyle and instruct newcomers on the best way to conduct themselves in this sexually charged atmosphere.

The workshop will be begin at 10:00pm and is free to attend with admission into the club.

Single Gentlemen and couples $50, always free for single women. Oasis will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am. *Single men must be chaperoned by another female or couple in order to visit the third floor playrooms. Everyone has accessibility to the spa facilities, main floor, dungeon and outdoor pool.

Double Your Pleasure

Thursday August 28

Couples; double your fun this Thursday and bring along a second lady for free. Enjoy our spa facilities or mix and mingle upstairs in our various play rooms. The perfect way to kick start the long weekend.

Club open 11:00 am-3:00 am. Couples $80, second lady free. Solo ladies attending club $20.

Staycation Sunday & Hot Kiss

August 31


Daytime: The perfect destination getaway right in the heart of the city! Indulge in paradise without having to pack a suitcase. Oasis offers a beautiful outdoor pool in a private court yard where you can swim, sip a cocktail and soak up some rays. The indoor hot tub, sauna and upper floor themed play rooms are available for even more indulgence. Couples and women only please. Club open 11:00 am-7:00 pm. Couples $50, ladies $20.

Evening: Join us for ‘Hot Kiss’ -an inclusive event for all genders, orientations and identities! One gender-free price of $30 per person. Singles, couples, partners, triads, poly groups and everyone in between is welcome to visit Oasis Aqualounge on Sunday August 31st. We are excited to announce that Woodbutcher will be playing a live set at this event! Get rowdy with this punk rock drag band and move your body to some killer ‘queerabilly’ tunes!

Enjoy a ‘body safe’ sex toy workshop, ft. ‘Anna-Lovedreamer’s local “Pyrex-pert’!” Anna can also be found at the Lovedreamer booth at this year’s Everything To Do With Sex Show and Sexapalooza! Also, special birthday greetings to Blair Ryder! We are excited to show one of Canada’s top 5 T-Girl models and special friend of Oasis Aqualounge some love. Bring cake, kisses and follow this beauty on Twitter! @BlairRyderx.

Hosted by Miss F Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-7:00 pm for Staycation Sunday.

"White Heat" Bonus Hot Springs

Monday September 1

Celebrate Labour Day with us for the Bonus Hot Springs “White Heat” event. You know the saying “you can’t wear white after Labour Day,”so now’s your last chance to flaunt your sexiest white outfit, gentlemen that means you too! Today Oasis will dazzle with all white decor. Single men, ladies and couples are welcome to to lounge, play and socialize from 11:00 am-3:00 am. Enjoy a relaxing holiday in the heart of downtown Toronto with friends and/or a loved one. Send summer off with a bang!

Student pricing special: men with student ID $20, couples with student ID $25 (male must have student ID.)

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TMI Tuesday: August 26, 2014: The Sexy Things We Do And Say

TMI Tuesday: August 26, 2014

I had fun producing this week’s TMI Tuesday questions. I found inspiration from reading elsewhere, which sparked my imagination into creating my own slightly twisted questions. Have fun! -H

1. Close your eyes and think about having sex with your lover. Now, what was the first image that came to your mind? Was it foreplay? What kind of sex? What position? Where?
Foreplay is what I am all about these days. I go through little bouts of sex act obsession. Cunnilingus rules these days!

2. What is that most memorable thing that you or your partner said immediately after sex?
Part of me wants to reply with that "WUAH WUAH WUAH" sound from Charlie Brown...

3. Whether reward or punishment, a part of your body must be shown on a huge billboard in the heart of your city/town. Which body part will you select to be 14 feet tall by 48 feet wide (4.27 meters x 14.63 meters)?
My big, beautiful brain.

4. You are about to lose your power of speech, what’s the one thing you would want to tell someone before that happens?
"Press record now... I love you H & M & R"

5. You are stricken with a disorder that causes you to blurt out a single phrase every time you orgasm? What is that phrase?
Pretty sure that has already happened with "ohhhhhh....yeahhhhhh"

Bonus: If you had to make out with a friend (same sex or opposite sex) to save the world from mass destruction, whom would you pick?
Can I just start a lineup and do it with a bunch? I have a lot of sexy friends!


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link totmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

Monday, August 25, 2014

Call for Submissions: Fireborn Publishing

Call for Submissions

Fireborn Publishing

What do we take?
Mostly romance (all levels from traditional to erotic), but also erotica and romantic stories, to a lesser extent.
Mostly MM and MF, but also FF and ménage.
From short stories of 5000 words through plus-sized novels. Books of more than 45K will also be slated for print.
All subgenres.
We are willing to consider re-release titles, but (for obvious reasons) we would like to get new releases on the schedule.
The usual no-gos apply.

What do we offer?
40% net for authors for the first three books with us. After that, we plan to offer 50% on further books. All books over 20K get an individual cover.

Submission details at:

Daily Sex Discussion #649: Webcam Sex?

Daily Sex Discussion #649

Have you ever had sex, with another person, on a webcam for someone else to watch?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

More Sex Before Marriage = Less Happy Marriage?

I think Dr. Justin Lehmiller and Dr. Jim McNulty hit it here in critiquing this study on increased premarital sex being a a factor in unhappy marriages. They note it wasn't peer-reviewed and that even the researchers note the analysis was "arbitrary." I'll add that it was brought forward by a group called The National Marriage Project whose mission is "is to provide research and analysis on the health of marriage in America, to analyze the social and cultural forces shaping contemporary marriage, and to identify strategies to increase marital quality and stability."

Overly Sexualized Spider-Woman

I love that people are really taking Marvel to task over these ridiculous drawings of Spider-Woman.

Sunday, August 24, 2014

Saturday, August 23, 2014

Sex News! I love it! August 24, 2014

The Painful Paradox of Coercive Sexuality

50 Shades Of Kink: How To Introduce BDSM To The Bedroom With Duct Tape And A Spatula

Who Actually Pays for Porn Anymore? An Investigation

My Daughter Masturbates – Is That Normal?

What Women Think About Sex vs. the Reality


Every Sex Worker Is Somebody’s Daughter

What do you do when you discover that your partner is looking at internet porn?

The No. 1 Reason Women Cheat

Photographer Captures Real Women From Around The World Having Orgasms (NSFW)

How to Spot a Flirt

Fucking Trees

Would You Have Sex With a Robot? The Age of the Sexbot Is Fast Approaching

We Are All Sexters Now: America’s Favorite Amateur Porn

Sexting Lies: The New Orgasm Faking?

6 Most Savvy Sexologists of 2014

Sex-ed in the age of “Fifty Shades”: Author of controversial book about sex speaks out

5 Reasons Men Over 50 Love Blow Jobs

Love at any size

The best sex tips you’ll ever hear — from a man with no penis

Meet the First Woman Suing Facebook for Revenge Porn

What are the main reasons men pay for sex?

Here’s What a 100-Year-Old Sex Therapist Thinks is Wrong With Sex Today

Horny Old Ladies Describe Sex With Younger Man

Daily Sex Discussion #647: Sex Robot?

Daily Sex Discussion #647

If they ever become widely available, would you have sex with a sex robot?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Sex Box Coming to America

I'm not a fan of reality shows, but the premise behind Sex Box, a British import being adapted for the American TV market, seems compelling. I remember hearing about the original series, but haven't seen any episodes yet. Unfortunately, since we're talking about an adaptation of Brit to US...it is bound to be awful. Here's hoping not and that it can be fun and informative.

Porn Star Earning Breast Implants

Identify a need or desire. Set a goal. Create a plan to reach that goal. Enact plan. Reap reward.

Porn star Zoe Zebra wants breast implants so she's going to earn them through a co-operative project with her employer.

Workshop: Sex after 60: We’re Still in the Game

Sex after 60: We’re Still in the Game

Date: Tuesday September 16, 2014
Time : 7:00 pm to 7:00 pm

Good for Her
175 Harbord St., Toronto

65 year old sex educator, Lyba Spring invites you to explore your sexuality.

We will talk about how you first learned about it, how others see us as sexual beings; and how to live a sexy life, enjoying what we always have, adjusting to changes, and adding to our sexual repertoire.

Price : $33.00

Workshop: Easier Than You Think: Talking to your kids about bodies, relationships and sexuality

Easier Than You Think: Talking to your kids about bodies, relationships and sexuality

Date: Thursday September 18, 2014
Time : 7:00 pm to 9:30 pm

Good for Her
175 Harbord St., Toronto

Price : $33.00

Children have a lot of questions: “Where do babies come from?” “What makes boys and girls different?”, “Why do people kiss?”. Answering them and sharing your values may seem scary but it all takes is a little know-how and practice.

Join sex educator and mom, Nadine Thornhill for a fun, fact-filled workshop that gives you the tools you need to make it easy to talk with your 3-8 year-olds. You will learn what kids of that age need to know, when and how to have the conversation and what to do when their questions catch you completely off guard!

By the end of this workshop you’ll be able to have “the talk”...without anyone blushing!

With Nadine Thornhill

This workshop is open to people of all genders, sexual orientations, family and relationship structures.

Friday, August 22, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #646: Really Wanna Try?

Daily Sex Discussion #646

What sex activity that you haven't tried would you most like to try?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

BDSM Is Not (the only) Kink

I've been tossing this fascinating article on kink as a sexual orientation around in my noodle for a few days now. Frankly, I see valid points from both the kink and queer communities.

But that isn't what I've been thinking about. Admittedly, I've gotten sidetracked here, but what I am having trouble with is the author's use of the term 'kink' to mean 'BDSM' and vice versa. This is something, usually quite subtle, that I've noticed over the years. And I don't think it is accurate—fundamentally or practically.

The general definition of kink is simply one's sexual taste or preference. So, sure, BDSM is definitely a kink. But it is only a kink, not kink. Equating the two terms not only skews the meaning of kink, but that confusion can give kinksters and non-kinksters a differing perspective on what kink/fetish/BDSM are.

These days, if you say kink or fetish, the image that automatically springs to mind is leather/latex/rubber/whips/spanking/paddles/crosses/black. In other words, states or dress and activities that are closely (though not exclusively) linked to BDSM. Is this because that is what pop culture and newbies to scenes ascribe to the kink community? Partially. But it is also a product of the kink community itself.

Of the kink subcultures, the BDSM community is, by far, the most vocal, public and noticeable of all. Many cities feature "fetish" nights that can usually be described with that list of words from above. And I fucking love the BDSM community for this. They are out there challenging the sexual norm in a public way.

But BDSM is not the whole of the kink/fetish community. And the leather/latex/rubber/whips/spanking/paddles/crosses/black crowd is not even the whole of the BDSM community. But I have to say, if you want to explore kink, and don't fit in with this specific image, it can be pretty challenging.

Admittedly, I haven't been to many fetish/kink/BDSM events lately. But when I was going more regularly, I was always irked by the rules that exclude people from coming into the event wearing blue jeans, t-shirts and the like. I understand, on a level, the reasoning behind this rule—not letting looky-lou's who might be insensitive in. I get that and it is important.

However, it is exclusionary to those kinksters who want to explore their sex/orientation—but don't own black leather/rubber/latex, etc. Hell, the only reason I own most of my leather was through a little sexual barter. That shit is expensive and hell, some people just aren't into it.

So, there are people who are kinky, and even some people who are into BDSM who don't fit the mold. Therefore, BDSM is a kink, but not kink.

Let me back this all up by saying that I doubt this piece was written with the intention of conflating kink and BDSM. I doubt that is the case at all. However, it happens. A LOT. And I don't think a reasonable case for establishing kink OR BDSM as an orientation can be made until a better delineation is made.

Lesbians and Orgasms

Apparently, lesbians have the most orgasms among women. Gay and straight dudes come in about the same. Nice to see that bi folk were considered.

Men in Porn Production?

Although my experience was brief and mostly limited to the amateur situations I performed in, I can readily concur with Chauntelle Tibbals experience observing a dude perform on a porn set. I definitely think more could be written and discussed when it comes to equality in porn production.

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #645: Right Now Sex Mood?

Daily Sex Discussion #645

What one work would you use to describe your sexual mood RIGHT NOW?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Sheri Winston's Succulent Sexcraft—Super Sexy Sale Sept 14-16!

Would you love to be having the most fabulous sex possible? Do you want to be the lover of your partner’s wildest dreams?

Then my colleague Sheri Winston’s new book, Succulent Sexcraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice is for YOU!

Do you love getting free stuff? Gifts that can help you have an (even more) amazing sex life?

Buy her new book in the time-limited 3-day window of September 14-16 and more than $700 worth of extra goodies are yours completely FREE!

Sheri’s new book Succulent Sexcraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice is packed with information about how to improve your bedroom skills—you can even become a sexual virtuoso! This treat of a book is well-written, packed with play and practice exercises—it even has lots of erotic art images (both vintage and contemporary). It’s a brilliant, integral, wholistic, hot and juicy educational romp!

If you don’t already know about Sheri, her previous book is one of my all-time favorites. I recommend Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure. It won a national prize and has gotten almost 80 rave reviews on Amazon.

If you buy Succulent SexCraft on September 14, 15 or 16, you’ll qualify for over 20 free gifts from some of the world’s greatest sex and relationship teachers. Gifts like free e-books, free online classes, free teleseminars ... free consults, even! Details here.

That’s right—buy Sheri Winston’s Succulent Sexcraft book in the three-day launch window and get hundreds of dollars of free goodies that will collectively kick your sex life into the next gear. How cool is that?

Just click here to find out more and get a reminder of the three-day buy window so you can get the book and all the goodies!



Friday, October 31
at 10:00pm - 3:00am

The Opera House
735 Queen Street East, Toronto

HALLOWEEN!!!!!!!!!!! October 31st! Yes on actual Halloween night!! As if that's not cool enough check this out....

From Miranda Tempest, JD Spark and Poisonne of Illumianir Entertainment comes act sure to appeal to your most twisted sensibilities..A world premiere of a new circus act that has to be seen to be believed. Daring aerial work combined with explosive fire effects and suspension bondage combine to create an act that will make Halloween 2014 the most memorable Subspace Halloween Ball yet!

Joshua Mayhem takes lead on the Day Of The Dead face painting/body painting arena. If you would like to do your face Day of the Dead style contact Joshua or approach at the event for most anything!!

Creepy Clowns; we love them we hate them, Excellent! We will have a clown-heavy photo-booth to scare your pants off!

The Nearly Nude costume contest will happen around 12:45 on the main stage. Don't Miss It!

Rope Bondage arena demos all evening!

DJ Saucy Miso & DJ Jason Warmuffin

735 Queen St. E., Toronto, Ontario M4M 1H1
Doors 10:00
$20 before midnight $25 after midnight.
Dungeon Rules posted in Dungeon or ask to speak with the ChiefDM

FACEBOOK GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/subspaceFetishNight
FET LIFE GROUP: https://fetlife.com/groups/2615

Want to be a Vendor?
For Information please contact: subspace@live.ca

Contact: subspace@live.ca

Craig Galbraith

The Best Sex-related Ted Talks

Great to have all these collected on one page!

Reconsidering Gay Men Draw Vaginas

I included the Gay Men Draw Vaginas link in a recent edition of Sex News! I love it! but I will admit I was uncomfortable with it. Thing is, I often include news items I am uncomfortable with because the post is supposed to promote conversation.

So I am quite happy to read Eva Gantz's tremendous reconsideration of Gay Men Draw Vaginas. She touches on much of what made me queasy, including proper terminology, vagina as monster and trans exclusion. A must read!

Older People Talking About Sex

It is very important to start discussion about sex for older folks. Some have never had the opportunity to speak openly about sex. Now there is a significant opportunity to bring that conversation forward, particularly issues regarding sexual health.

Porn and Fantasy—Good, Bad or Poetry?

An interesting exploration and discussion of fantasy. Rather porn-negative...but maybe she just hasn't experienced good porn?

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #644: Text Interruptus?

Daily Sex Discussion #644

Have you ever interrupted sex to reply to a text?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Talking About Our Cocks

“I’m happy with my penis. Absolutely no complaints. We’ve had many fun times together and with others.”
That is the type of sentiment I hope all people have about their penises. Check out more thoughts folks have about their dicks (with a fair bit of CanCon!) in this very good piece by Monica Heisey in Vice.

Youth Want Sex Ed

It is fantastic that youth are reaching out and saying that they want good sex ed, but I can't help but think that some want porn too.

Call for submissions: Arthurian erotica

Call for submissions: Arthurian erotica
Edited by Jennifer Levine
Publisher: Circlet Press

Deadline: November 1, 2014

Everyone knows the story of King Arthur and his Knights of the Round Table. Tales of the world of Camelot, that fabled medieval castle, have been adapted into animated movies for children, dark television dramas for adults, Broadway musicals, fantasy novels, comics, historical fiction books, and epic musical scores. Children play at being Arthur’s knights, teenagers brood over the doomed romance of Guinevere and Lancelot, and historians debate which of the stories, if any, are fact, and which are simply legend or myth.

King Arthur. Guinevere. Uther Pendragon. Morgana le Fay. Merlin the Wizard. The Knights of the Round Table. Sir Lancelot. Sir Gawain. Mordred. Maybe you know all of these names and more; maybe you’ve only heard of a few. Maybe you’ve heard of sordid love affairs between some of these characters, or magic enchantments gone wrong, or murders and betrayals among even the closest of friends.

So many stories have already been written about the world of Camelot, and so many remain to be told. For this anthology, we are looking for both reimagined old stories and altogether newly invented ones; dalliances we are expecting and affairs we wouldn’t have imagined; familiar characters, new characters, and some we thought we knew but discover anew in your telling.

Your story must take place in the Arthurian universe, with at least one or two of the main characters we are familiar with, but beyond that, go wild. Maybe your characters are gender-swapped; maybe your Camelot is a futuristic world with knights wielding sugarcane; maybe your characters are powerful magicians, or maybe magic doesn’t exist in your world at all.

Remember that this is an anthology of erotica, so your story must have an element of sex in it (and not just any sex, but steamy sex, sexy sex, the kind of sex that leaves us hot and bothered after reading it). But this is also a collection of excellent fiction: your story needs a plot, your characters need to be fleshed out and fully imagined, your story needs to be about something.

For submission details, read on.

Length: Our preferred length is approximately 3,500 to 7,500 words, but we will consider the range from 2,000 to 10,000 words.

How to submit: Send .rtf, .doc, or .docx via email to Jennifer Levine, editor, at jlevineeditor@gmail.com.

About the editor: Jennifer Levine is the Managing Editor of Circlet Press, where she mostly wrangles other editors into submission (and some authors, too). Other Circlet anthologies she has edited include Like a God’s Kiss, Apocalypse Sex, Masked Pleasures, and What Happens at the Tavern Stays at the Tavern.

Only email submissions are accepted. Submissions sent to other addresses/other editors at Circlet Press will not be considered. Standard manuscript formatting rules apply even though sending as an attachment (MS Word .doc, .docx, or .rtf preferred). Please note that this means your name, address, and email contact must appear on the manuscript itself and not simply in your email message. (If you’re not sure what a standard short story submission format should look like, Google is your friend.)

No simultaneous submissions (that is, don’t also send your story elsewhere at the same time, and don’t send it to multiple Circlet editors, either), and no multiple submissions to the same book. One story per author per anthology.

All stories must include explicit sexuality and erotic focus. Romantic content is welcome, but in a short story remember to keep the details on the action and its effects on the main character’s internal point of view. We favor a strong, singular narrative voice (no ‘head hopping’ or swapping between different character’s points of view within a scene). For more details on our editorial preferences, see the general submission guidelines on circlet.com. We highly recommend reading the guidelines, especially the “do not send” list, to increase your chances of sending us something we’ll love. Try to avoid cliches. Fresh and direct language is preferred to overly euphemistic. Sex-positive, please, no rape/nonconsensuality/necrophilia or other purposefully gross topics. We do not publish horror.

Originals only, no reprints. We purchase first rights for inclusion in the ebook anthology for $25, with the additional rights to a print edition later, which would also be paid $25 if a print edition happens. Authors retain the rights to the individual stories; Circlet exercises rights to the anthology as a whole.

That Man/Snake Sex Video...

Okay, I normally don't post too many bizarre sex stories, but this week seems to be the exception. Because there are too many bizarre sex stories! First there was The Penis Collector, then Sex with Corpses Conviction. And now?

A Man Had Sex With a Snake and the Internet Is Losing It

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #643: Sex Poem?

Daily Sex Discussion #643

Have you ever written or received a sex poem?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

First Taste, First timer, Scavenger hunt, Rock n' Roll and summer SUNday

Keeping You Hot

Events this week at the Oasis

Weekend Highlights

My First Time at a Sex Club

Check out this awesome article on Oasis Aqualounge. Special thanks to Plaid Zebra for publishing this great read!

Sexy Scavenger Hunt

Friday August 22

Join us for a sexy scavenger hunt-Oasis Aqualounge style- on Friday August 22nd. Do you think you know the club inside and out? Have you tried every sexual position on your bucket list? Bring your lover, spouse and/or partner(s) and play this fun game full of riddles, activities and exploration.

This will be a great way to familiarize yourself with the venue if you are new to Oasis and/or explore some hidden fantasies not yet discovered.

Hosted by Miss F, the scavenger hunt will begin at10:00pm and is open to women and couples. There will be a prize for the winning woman/couple who are the first to complete all items on the list. Test your knowledge, stamina and libido. It will be the hottest ‘quiz’ you will ever take!

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00am-3:00am. Women $20, couples $80.

Fionna's Rock 'n Roll Bday Bash

Saturday August 23

Come out tonight and celebrate Oasis resident burlesque performer Fionna Flauntit’s birthday! Party starts 9:00 pm. Embrace your inner rock star...rock out with your cock out! Rock 'n Roll trivia game followed by a naked air guitar contest, super sexy prizes to be won. Dancing, drink specials, themed burlesque performances at 11:00 pmand much more! Don't forget to give the birthday girl her well deserved bday spankings. Meow! Club open 11:00 am-3:00 am.

Weekly Favourites & More

Hot Springs Celebrates the CNE!

Wednesday August 20

Celebrate the CNE during ‘Hot Springs,’ at Oasis Aqualounge! The Oasis promo models will be out to play and will engage in some sexy carnival games, inspired by the annual summer tradition-The Canadian National Exhibition.

The Kissing Booth will be open and will be taking donations for PWA-Toronto People with AIDS Foundation (www.pwatoronto.org). Get a sweet smooch from a lovely lady of Oasis and give to a great organization!

Single men/couples who bring their CNE ticket stub will receive $30 admission. Single women are free, as always.

Weekly features always include:

-DJ Ella Vation spins the sexiest tunes- 10pm to late!

-Massage available in the evenings. ($1/minute, suggested time: 20 minutes)

-DM(Dungeon Monitor) available 7pm to 1am in the dungeon.

*Single men must be chaperoned by another female or couple in order to visit the third floor playrooms. Everyone has accessibility to the spa facilities, main floor, dungeon and outdoor pool.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00am-3:00am. Single men/couples $50, single women are always free.

First Taste

Thursday August 21

Curious about what Oasis Aqualounge has to offer? Interested in enhancing the intimacy in your relationship?

Join an Oasis Aqualounge representative every 1st and 3rdThursday for First Taste at 8:00pm. Enjoy a drink, receive a tour of the venue and participate in a Q&A period from experienced members.

M/F Couples- $20 (tour & Q&A), $60 additional to stay afterwards or receive a $20 voucher to return another night. Single women may receive a free tour, $20 to stay. Couples and women only.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am.

Staycation Sundays

August 24

The perfect destination getaway right in the heart of the city! Indulge in paradise without having to pack a suitcase. Oasis offers a beautiful outdoor pool in a private court yard where you can swim, sip a cocktail and soak up some rays. The indoor hot tub, sauna and upper floor themed play rooms are available for even more indulgence.

Couples and women only please. Club open 11am-7pm. Couples $50, ladies $20.

Please note that Oasis Aqualounge will be closed for aprivate event tonight from 8:00 pm-3:00 am.

Sass After Class

Featuring Back to School Burlesque!
Monday August 25

Sass After Class is an event for students to come and enjoy Oasis Aqualounge at a more wallet friendly rate. Come out and relax by the pool, spin on the poles, or swing in the dungeon.

Women $5, men 35 and under with student ID $20, men 35 and under without ID $50.

Tonight's Feature:

Sass After Class welcomes Back To School Burlesque-a evening of school-themed entertainment. You definitely won’t want to be late to this class!

Check out performances by: Scarlett Black, Kage Wolfe and Willy Wonder.

Sass After Class will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am.

Upcoming Highlights -Save the Date!

Wednesday August 27 -Hot Springs Features FanExpo Teaser Wednesday


Social media links:

Sex as Artistic Medium?

I'm curious about this project, "Save the Date" by artist Mischa Badasyan. His goal is to have sex with a different man every day for the next year. He's exploring loneliness and emptiness, particularly for gay men in today's so-called hook-up culture. 

Curious...what do you think?

Sex with Corpses Conviction

It is certainly turning into an interesting week in terms of people exploring sexuality with the dead.

Ohio Morgue Attendant Admits to Fucking 100 Corpses

My Latest Sex Stories We Love on Kinkly!

This is one varied post, folks! Hometown Porn Hero, Sperm Races and Misconceptions About Sex and more!

Choosing the Right Dildo for You

Fantastic guide from A Woman's Touch (shared by Dr. Jess O'Reilly) to finding the best dildo(s) for your collection. I love how it is inclusive of men and women and considers the different uses and rolls dildos can have in sex and health. Great stuff!

Lubed Up for Sex—Inside and Out!

I'll admit it too me far too long to realize dehydration was playing a role in my sex life. And of course, sometimes I still do forget. But I sure can tell the difference!

TMI Tuesday: Aug. 19, 2014: Doing Business

TMI Tuesday: Aug. 19, 2014

This week’s TMI Tuesday is the idea of Virtual Sin and the questions are a collaboration between him and myself. Enjoy!
Doing Business

For each of the categories listed below, imagine that a new business or event of that type opened in your area. Tell us whether you would check it out or attend; and, whether you would go alone, with friends of your gender, or with a significant other/lover. Expound on your answer as much as you’d like.

1. Sports Bar: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), though sports bars aren't really my thing.

2. Brew pub or beer hall: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), though a good pub is hard to find

3. Wine Festival: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), the area I am from hosts a major event every year...though I think I only went once.

4. Tanning Salon: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
never...I do not understand tanning

5. Sex/kink event (e.g. Dark Odyssey, Sexapalooza, Leather conferences, fetish ball, kinky salon): never, alone, with friends, with your SO?

6. Strip club: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), haven't been to one in a number of years now, but fun times are often had!

7. Sex toy store: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), my friends and my SO are fun to go to sex stores with.

8. Upscale Spa: never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
never...no interest

9. Adult Sex education conference (e.g. Eroticon, CatalystCon): never, alone, with friends, with your SO?
All of the above (except never), I'm glad I have people to share my hobbies with


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link totmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #641: Sex Dreams?

Daily Sex Discussion #641

Do your dreams include sex?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

California Condom Bill Dies

A clear message the porn industry does and can regulate itself.

Elust #61

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Welcome to Elust #61 -

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #62? Start with the rules, come back September1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Bloggers, please
I Touch Myself
Stunt Porn / People Porn

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Is sex unsexy? A 'His & Hers' post
Van Gogh, an erotic author and a selfie...

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* His Desires All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!  

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Anorgasmia in women
One Week On
Safe Craigslist Hookups
Online Dating: How to Talk to People
Stealth Sex Toys-Stash Management
Last Longer In Bed For Men Naturally

Erotic Non-Fiction

Spicing Up Sex Life
Gasp, Shake, Thank You
Again and Again
Fapping to My Photos and Stories
Did you miss me?
Desire….What happens when you can’t succumb?
Off Balance
On the Sofa
The Solace of My Body
Self Given
Orgasms & Ice Cream
Skid Marks

Sex News,Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Jacky au royaume des filles
What makes a sex writer?
Dubrovnik whore as metaphor 4 Balkan politics
Am I Pretty or Ugly?

Erotic Fiction

Lonely observations
Fucking and Being Fucked The Churning Black, Part 4
A Return to Purpose
Bang on Target!
My Night With Lilith

Writing About Writing

Words That Shouldn't Be In Erotica
Transhumanist Erotica: Jacked In


Just One Look

Thoughts and Advice on Kink and Fetish

The Hotness Of Cockteasing A Guy In Chastity
My eyes are over here
Submissive Men 101 Facts
Emotional Masochism
The time I made him make me safeword


Frame Game - A Lusty Limerick


Diana J Torres- Vagaculation Workshop
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Saturday, August 16, 2014

Sex News! I love it! August 16, 2014

Are You Sexually Compatible?

More bang for your buck

Tell Me Something Good

Sasha Grey Lovelaced Into Porn?

32 Things You Can Learn From Porn

Adults Share The Wrongest Things They Used To Believe About Sex

Stripper Responds to the Oregonian: "I am no Mary Magdalene"


Queen of Pain: How My Marriage Survived My Illness

50 Shades of Non-Consent: Editing BDSM Erotica as a Queer Top

Meet the unassuming mothers, librarians and church-goers behind some of the world's raunchiest reads: The very ordinary lives of erotic fiction writers

Sperm Cooperation: Sometimes Sperm Swim Together To Enhance Performance

Star Trek Writer's Defense of Diversity in Sci-Fi Is Damn Near Perfect

FILM BUFFS: Ms. Naughty’s Must-See Films (“all of them prove that I’m not a film buff, just a nerd.”)

9 Sex Moves to Rock a Woman's World

PHOTOS: Photographer Captures The Softer Side Of BDSM

The Problem With Sexual Arousal Studies


Japan's creepy sex doll industry 'reaches next level' in creation of perfect artificial £1,000 ‘Dutch Wife’ which comes with 'realistic feeling skin'

Christy Mack’s Brutal Reality Show

Three Steps to Loving Your Body

The intimate confessions of a female porn fan

I Waited Until My Wedding Night To Lose My Virginity And I Wish I Hadn’t

Are your naked selfies safe? Researchers recover 100s of nude photos from second-hand smartphones

How sex got its soundtrack: The X-rated history of “boom-chicka-wah-wah”

Here's What Happened When I Agreed to Try Group Masturbation

7 Proven Reasons Why It’s Perfectly Okay To Have Sex On The First Date

Daily Sex Discussion #640: BBW or BHM?

Daily Sex Discussion #640

Are you attracted to BBW or BHM?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #638: Under the Table?

Daily Sex Discussion #638

Have you ever sexually sneakily pleasured someone under a table in a restaurant?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Return Visit to Devi Ward's Better Love and Sex!

I'll be joining the wonderful Devi Ward on Thursday September 18 for another spot on her great show Better Love and Sex!

We'll be talking about 50 Shades of Grey and BDSM. You know I always have lots to say on that topic!

Tune in, 10pm ET/7pm PT!

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

My Next Sex City—Sex Business Roundtable!

It is a big and risky decision to venture out and start your own business. Take that risk and magnify it significantly if your business is sex-related.

On the AUGUST 26, 2014 edition of Sex City, join me for a roundtable discussion on the challenges and joys of starting, running and succeeding with your sex-based business. I will be joined by Rosanna, editor of In My Bed magazine, Deanna, owner of Hanky Panky boutique for lovers and Marika, leader of Kink Engineering!

Tune in, 11pm – midnight on TUESDAY AUGUST 26 to CIUT 89.5FM in the Toronto area or stream live online!

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Program Info
CIUT on Facebook
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Daily Sex Discussion #637: Sex Video Game?

Daily Sex Discussion #637

Would you (or do you) play an explicit, sex-themed video game?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion


Saturday, September 27
at 10:00pm

The Great Hall
1087 Queen W, Toronto


HEAVY METAL FETISH BALL is a music driven event with DJ's Saucy Miso and guest DJ Johnny Tan bringing the metal remixes and extreme tunes from past and present.
We return to The Great Hall for this fun event! We have missed this venue over the summer and glad to be back support this club. (We hope the great hall will be around for along time to come!)

Feature fashion show from: Lady Violet Designs
Lady Violet Designs officially launched in 2010. Initially working with latex, but quickly switching over to PVC fetish wear, and corsetry. After being away for a few months to revamp the line, LVD is excited to start it's 're-launch' at Subspace! You will see many more cinched in waists, lots of shiny black pvc, moulded armour, and barely there materials.

DJ Saucy Miso and special guest Johnny Tan!

Doors 10:00pm

Only $10 before midnight!

DRESS CODE!!! NO JEANS AND T-SHIRTS you will get turned away at the door.

$10 before midnight $20 after midnight.
Play area rules posted in Dungeon or ask to speak with the ChiefDM

Saturday September 27 The Great Hall
1087 Queen St W, Toronto, ON M6J 1H3

IMAGE Photo: Peter Gonzales

FACEBOOK GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/subspaceFetishNight
FETLIFE GROUP: https://fetlife.com/groups/2615

Want to be a Vendor??
For Information please contact: subspace@live.ca

Contact: subspace@live.ca


Christy Mack, PERSON, Beaten—Consider Donating

"In the particular case of Christy Mack, the victim blaming is taking on an even more defamatory dimension because Mack, as headlines around the web are sure to remind you, is an adult film actress. In virtually every publication from TIME to TMZ she is introduced by the same four words: “porn star Christy Mack.” You might think “porn star” is her first name and not her profession."

Christy Mack's assault was reprehensible, the act of a sick and twisted individual. That media fixates on her profession is fuel for more victim-blaming. Of course, her work can be noted, but the last line of the above quote from Samantha Allen says it all. Treat this case for what it is: an awful assault that no one ever deserves.

And if you would like to help Christy, consider donating to her medical expenses.

Super Sex City Last Night with Kelly Shibari, Epiphora and Shane Allison!

Last night's Sex City was a ride! A damn fine ride!

It was a pleasure to speak with each of Kelly Shibari, Epiphora and Shane Allison. I really enjoy shows that bring together a mix of topics and personalities. We talked Plus Size porn with Kelly, sex toy reviewing with Epiphora and cop erotica with Shane! That might seem really random but ultimately, I took something important away from the show. Sure, we've all got our niche and we've all got our personal interests when it comes to sex. These differentiate us and make us all uniquely awesome. But at the same time, we find commonality when we hone in on our niche.


Special Issue Call for Papers: "The Media’s Evolving Role in Sex Education"

Special Issue Call for Papers
Sex Education: Sexuality, Society and Learning

"The Media’s Evolving Role in Sex Education"

Deadline: 24 October 2014

The Media’s Evolving Role in Sex Education

Guest Editors: Alan McKee, Sara Bragg, and Tristan Taormino

The entertainment media have long been identified as having a key role to play in education about sex and relationships.

All too often, however, in studies of sexual learning the media have been assessed for their potentially negative effects on young people. For example, studies have correlated consumption of particular media forms with early sexual intercourse or teenage pregnancy, while parents and schools have been seen as providing a positive corrective.

Empirical research shows that this simple binary is not always accurate: in some instances entertainment media may offer positive information and representations while school or parents often offer more moralizing or conservative perspectives. For example, a young person growing up in a homophobic family may see happy queer characters in a sitcom; or young people attending a school that emphasizes young women’s role as gatekeepers and controllers of men’s sexuality may find helpful TV dramas that explore women’s active sexual agency.

This Special Issue of the journal Sex Education will engage with these and related concerns, pausing to take stock of where we are now, especially with respect to the positive role that old and newer forms of media can play in learning about sex.

Papers may focus on any aspect of the entertainment media, and on any aspect of healthy sexual development – including, but not limited to, open communication about sex, assertiveness, sexual agency, sexual identity, or an acceptance that sex can be pleasurable.
Submission Procedures

Submission Deadline: 24th October, 2014
Articles for the Special Issue will be subject to normal peer review in line with the procedures of the journal. For more information on how to submit your paper, please visit the instructions for authors tab on the journal website.

When you submit your paper will be asked whether you are submitting for a Special Issue. Please use the pull-down menu to note that you are submitting your paper for the Special Issue The Media’s Evolving Role in Sex Education. Please also note in the manuscript of your article that you are submitting it for this Special Issue.

If you are not sure whether your article is appropriate for this Special Issue, please feel free to send an abstract in the first instance to Alan McKee.

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Daily Sex Discussion #636: Uniforms?

Daily Sex Discussion #636

Are you turned on by people in uniform?

Reply with your response to #DailySexDiscussion

Karaoke Thursday, Fetish Friday, Sexhibition Carnival Saturday & Spit Party Monday

Karaoke Thursday, Fetish Friday, Sexhibition Carnival Saturday and Spit Party Monday

Bringing Sexy Back!

Events This Week at the Oasis

Plan Your Visits:

Tuesday August 12 -Tonight** - Foot Fetish
(Everyone welcome)
Wednesday August 13 -Hot Springs Featuring Glamour Puss Burlesque
(Everyone welcome)
Thursday August 14 -Double Your Pleasure & Naked Karaoke
(Couples & women only)
Friday August 15 -Fetish Friday
(Couples & women only)
Saturday August 16 -Sexhibition
(Couples & women only)
Sunday August 17 -Staycation Sunday & Genesis Fetish Party
(Daytime:Couples & women only. Evening: Everyone welcome)
Monday August 18 -Sass After Class Featuring SPIT Party & Porn Shoot
(Everyone 35 years & under welcome)
Tuesday August 19 -Nudes and Suits
(Everyone welcome--'dress' code in effect)

Weekend Highlight

Sexhibition Adult Carnival

Saturday August 16

Looking for a place to go after spending the day at the CNE? Hoping for a more adult atmosphere and to enjoy some evening fun?

Visit Oasis Aqualounge on Saturday August 16th as we organize our own version of the CNE; ‘Sexhibition!’ Enjoy sweet smooches in the Kissing Booth, Sybian rides and more!

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am. Evening festivities begin at 9:00 pm. Women and couples only please. Women $20, couples $80.


Have you checked out the Oasis Forum yet? Meet new friends, play mates & more, just click on the "Socialize" tab and introduce yourself!

Weekly Favourites & More

Hot Springs Featuring Glamour Puss Burlesque

Wednesday August 13


The hottest hump day in Toronto! Hang out poolside, meet new friends, mix, mingle & explore. Weekly features always include:

-The hottest DJ's spinning your favourite tunes. Tonight on the decks is DJ Ella Vation.
-Massage available in the evenings for only a $1/minute (suggested time: 20 minutes).
-DM (Dungeon Monitor) available 7:00 pm to 1:00 am in the dungeon.

Burlesque Birthday Show
Celebrate Kinky La Femme’s birthday at Oasis Aqualounge with Toronto’s own Glamour Puss Burlesque, “putting the class back in ass” for over six years! Enjoy performances by Pearl Incognito, Frenchie Fatale, Rubie Magnitude and Kinky La Femme. Show will begin around 9:30 pm/10: 00 pm on the main floor.

Admission: $50 Single men, $50 couples, always free for ladies. *Single men must be chaperoned by another female or couple in order to visit the third floor playrooms. Everyone has accessibility to the spa facilities, main floor, dungeon and outdoor pool.

Double Your Pleasure & Naked Karaoke

Thursday August 14


Couples; double your fun this Thursday and bring along a second lady for free. Enjoy our spa facilities or mix and mingle upstairs in our various play rooms.

Test out your vocal chords tonight at Oasis Aqaulounge for our Naked Karaoke Party at 10:00 pm. Women and couples welcome. Karaoke is included with admission to club.

2nd Thursday Monthly Student Special: Student prices are available with proof of ID: women $5, men $20. Women/couples only please. Either individual within the couple can show their student ID for discounted rate, no need for both.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am.

Get Your Kink On!
Fetish Friday

Friday August 15

Every third Friday of the month is hosted by Northbound Leather. It's time to break out your kinky dungeon gear and head over to Oasis for an evening designed to fulfill your kinky side. All Oasis amenities available. Party starts 9:00 pm to 3:00 am. $80 Couples/Pan sexual, $20 women.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00am-3:00am for women and couples.

Staycation Sunday & Genesis Fetish Party

Sunday August 17


Daytime: The perfect destination getaway right in the heart of the city! Indulge in paradise without having to pack a suitcase. Oasis offers a beautiful outdoor pool in a private court yard where you can swim, sip a cocktail and soak up some rays.The indoor hot tub, sauna and upper floor themed play rooms are available for even more indulgence. Couples and women only please. Club open11:00 am-7:00 pm. Couples $50, ladies $20.

Evening: Toronto’s hottest fetish party is back, Genesis Fetish Party returns the third Sunday of every month! Genesis Fetish Party is an inclusive party for people who would like to engage in their kinks, fetishes, and sexuality. The pricing for Genesis parties is different from the typical Oasis Aqualounge nights.

For more details and for this month’s theme, check outwww.genesisplay.com.

*Please note that the Genesis Fetish Party event does not accept the pre-pay option. Click here to register or pay at the door.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-7:00 pm for regular Staycation Sundays. Women and couples are welcome.

Sass After Class Featuring SPIT Party & Porn Shoot

Monday August 18

Sass After Class is an event for students to come and enjoy Oasis Aqualounge at a more wallet friendly rate. Come out and relax by the pool, spin on the poles, or swing in the dungeon.

Oasis Aqualounge will be open from 11:00 am-3:00 am. Women $5, men 35 and under with student ID $20, men 35 and under without $50.

Tonight's Feature:
I’d Tap That will be hosting their bi-monthly play party at Oasis Aqualounge. An inclusive event that welcomes the usual Sass After Class demographic, along with some very special guests. Admission: $15 Men + Women (cis & trans) are all welcome (ages 19-35).

We encourage our CrushTO/Puppy Love crowd to come out!Single, taken, queer, gay, straight, bi, trans, lesbian, questioning and kinky. This event is for all sexual orientations and all gender identities.

There will be a live porn shoot happening on premises for The Spit Magazine, in a sectioned off room. If you would like to participate, please contact Jesse @ westraejesse@gmail.com. There will be safety people who will be easily identified. Please read the Id Tap That mission statement before attending.

SPIT Party Admission: $15 entry at the door, must be 35 years or younger please.
SPIT Party begins at 9:00 pm.

Suits and Nudes 

Tuesday August 19

Suits and Nudes returns to Oasis Aqualounge as a bi-monthly event onTuesday August 19, hosted by Miss F and the sexy Oasis Secretary.
This decadent event is dedicated to women who enjoy being fully nude in the presence of dapper gentlemen. Exceptions are given to accessories, hats, body jewelry, stay ups, glamorous jewelry, and heels/boots.

Nude women will join the company of gentlemen dressed in a matching two or three piece suit. A sophisticated event for those that love to dress up and look handsome.

Men $50, Couples $50, Women FREE. *Strict dress code enforced for men and women.

Agenda: 7:00pm-8:00pm: Women’s Pampering Time

Enjoy taking it off and getting adorned with accessories from Kinky Miss Lingerie! This stylish boudoir boutique has generously sponsored some lovely ankle and wrist bracelets, as well as some gorgeous thigh-high stockings. Accessories will be provided to women free of charge during the women’s-only hour and may be kept as a token reminder of the event!
Make up artist Maya Adivi (see MayamakeupToronto on facebook) will be on hand to offer glamorous touches of make up to any women wanting a little extra blush, gloss and sparkle! Check out her Facebook page for inspiration!
Women can also try ‘vagazzling’, which is the process where rhinestones are placed in a pretty design on the pubic bone. Miss Fwill be offering vagazzle designs for all ladies in attendance!
The lovely pin up model and talented ingénue Kelly Abbass will be engaging guests with a sexy photo shoot upstairs in the Red Bar, starting at 8:00pm. Guests are welcome to watch this live feature as observers. The theme will be in line with Suits and Nudes and will offer a titillating tease of nudity and sophistication!


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